Hey all. Some background - I'm a fit 39-year old single male and I've been in the LS for around 5 years. In that time, I've had a lot of fun and fulfillng experiences - with couples, with a wife solo, group play. Short term and long term arrangements. It's been fun, all in all.

I also happen to be a bicuious guy. In that - I have absolutely NO desire to fuck a guy or be fucked by a guy, but some things up to that point, if the vibe is right, I may be into with the guy. I've found that it can enhance the mfm experience. But it's definitely not a dealbreaker if the other guy isn't into it and I'm totally fine with making it all about her.

What's frustrating is that there have been many situations where I've had great conversation with a couple, only for it to completely shut down when I happen disclose that I'm open to light mm play if he's into it too, and if he's not no problem at all. Do people think I'm gonna reach for his dick after they've made clear that the other guy isn't interested in mm play? For the record, I have had great experiences with couples featuring a 100% straight male, and it was completely fine.

ok rant over.