My husband (M28) and I are a latin couple new to the lifestyle and the first couple we met for drinks was great. They are in their 30s and have been doing this for years. So far we’ve been on one date and texting/ sexting in a group chat. They were really excited to meet again and kept saying how we were one of the hottest couples they’ve meet and how much they like us ( they’re not poly). Our schedules didn’t align for weeks and we might finally meet this week. However, I’m a little suspicious that they (mostly the guy) like us more because we’re fresh meat basically, and I’m sensing a little jealousy towards other couples. Reasons being:

• he asked me when was the last time I was with someone other than my husband (since we met when we were teenagers)
• I mentioned I wanted to try multiple couples at the same time and he said maybe try with us first.
• he wants to take us to a sex party but he said “you guys are gonna be so popular, just don’t leave us behind” -I mentioned we were going on a date with a second couple and he said “ I thought we were gonna be your first?” then he said “I’m obviously joking”. I said “haha idk we might keep out v cards this weekend” and he reply” we want to take that v card from you guys” then proceed to say he was joking as well and asks us to keep them posted on how the date went.
• yesterday he asked me again, if we met the other couple, which at that point we hadn’t, how we felt about them and if they were hot.
• after the date with the other couple, this morning, he asked how it went and said it was great. He immediately asked if we lost our v cards in a joking manner of course and I said not yet. He just reply with “oh fun :)”

We’re meeting on Wednesday to finally play after a month. We really like them but now I’m wondering if they might be the type of people that once they have you they would go onto the next shiny new toy or if they’re just really into us and are a little jealous?

I’m just curious, what are your thoughts? Thank you in advance!