I’ve been dying to know my wife’s fantasies, but she always says she doesn’t have any. She’s as into the LS as I am, and everyone always says out loud how remarkably she plays while we’re playing. She’s fantastic and every partner wants a repeat. Always.

I tell her my fantasies and daydreams, but when I ask for a fantasy, she just shrugs. “I don’t have any.”

What is that? Really? I truly don’t get how someone could have no fantasies. Does she not want to say? I can respect it if that’s the case and I just need to wait until she opens up one day, but I just doubt it.
Who has no fantasies? I’d think that’s no one ever. We’ve been so open with each other since this all started, and I love that so much, but I’m having trouble believing her on this one.
To be fair, when I explain what I want to do with redecorating a room and paint a mind’s eye picture, she tells me she’s no good for that. Could it be related?

Set me straight here, people. Is this a thing? A female thing? (I’ll be extra surprised) Or not a thing?