Aside from the most talked about big issues (STDs and relationships ending) what are some other negative experiences or consequences you’ve experienced or seen in the lifestyle? I’m talking more things like: being doxxed or outted, family members lives affected, making privacy mistakes, clingy people, stalkers, fights, being robbed or conned, funny mishaps, etc…
Not trying to paint the lifestyle in a bad light or anything, I think the rewards far outweigh the risks for couples who are all in for the right reasons and most of these unfortunate scenarios would be very uncommon, just asking more out of curiosity!
So, may sound controversial to some, but what does your current routine look like? Many women use feminine soaps and deodorant and it's terrible for your ph even if it claims to be approved. I used to get UTI every time I had sex. No matter what I did. Showers before and after, peeing, the whole routine. Then I found people on a natural forum talking about baking soda (good aluminum free). I started using a big mixed in distilled water in a spray bottle as soap on my vagina. It was like magic. You have to get used to it and figure out a good ratio for yourself as it can be a little drying and of course nothing internally, but water. After doing this for a while I was able to just start using water. Another method is diluted apple cider vinegar and no the smell doesn't linger. You rinse it all off and dry and you can't smell it at all. I use it as soap on my whole body and my skin has never been softer! I hope it helps! I haven't had a UTI or BV for 3 years!
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So, may sound controversial to some, but what does your current routine look like? Many women use feminine soaps and deodorant and it's terrible for your ph even if it claims to be approved. I used to get UTI every time I had sex. No matter what I did. Showers before and after, peeing, the whole routine. Then I found people on a natural forum talking about baking soda (good aluminum free). I started using a big mixed in distilled water in a spray bottle as soap on my vagina. It was like magic. You have to get used to it and figure out a good ratio for yourself as it can be a little drying and of course nothing internally, but water. After doing this for a while I was able to just start using water. Another method is diluted apple cider vinegar and no the smell doesn't linger. You rinse it all off and dry and you can't smell it at all. I use it as soap on my whole body and my skin has never been softer! I hope it helps! I haven't had a UTI or BV for 3 years!