Okay swingers, need some advise, but first a little abridged background.

This last weekend we went to a hotel St. Patrick’s event. We were arriving a day early and I posted on the event page. There was a couple that reached out to us and we had dinner with them the night before the event. Now, let’s call him M and his wife W. They are soft swap only.

The night of the event we were mostly paralyzed but did finally dance with them, it was awesome.

M was very considerate and always made sure we were okay. I, newbie husband, was way to late to ask W to dance and felt like dunce after the fact. W was, fortunately, very patient and if W was annoyed she hid it well.

M pushed the boundaries regarding attempting to get closer to my wife while dancing. He asked first if I minded and I said no problem and my wife would let him know if she was uncomfortable.

After a few dances with W she turned her back to my front and took my hands up and placed under her breasts on the outside of her clothes. FYI she is more into ladies but does go both ways.

W also tried loosening my wife’s dress but the dress was not very accommodating.

Anyway we ended the night with no play, but had I started to dance an hour earlier, the night probably would have ended differently with at least girl on girl play.

This couple is aware that had we had a little more time the night could have ended differently.

So now for advise. M texted me and said they will be driving through our town and asked if we wanted to get together, we replied yes.

Chances are we will end up in their hotel room for play time after dinner. Now this may sound completely stupid but should we bring toothbrushes, should we expect also to shower first in their room? I’m a “body be clean freak” so getting clean in the shower with foreplay sounds great to me.

If this occurs it will our first time ever with anyone. We’ve been married over 30 years.