This past weekend my wife told me to reach out and ask a single friend of mine if he would like to mfm with us so I asked. Haven’t gotten a straight answer yet but he has stated he sees why we would ask. I’ve told the reason behind and why at times it’s like he’s up for it but other times he’s hesitant. He has stated that he thinks she is attractive and that he hasn’t gave a answer and said that it’s nothing to do with us but himself. Of course there’s no hard feeling I just don’t want the wife to feel like she’s not attractive enough and hurt her confidence and maybe sway her away from trying again.I’ve told him that he can talk to my wife if he need to try and make him more comfortable. It hasn’t changed anything in our relationship still close . I just don’t see why it’s such a hard decision.