So we found a potential couple. They’re super new like us. And super HOT! When asking the basic intro questions like why do you want to do this, what are your boundaries, etc. their response was: “We don't really know. We are trying to figure that out. I think we both just want to try something different without feeling like we “cheated.” We aren't sure if we will be able to be in the same room when we do the swap.”

Tell me if I’m crazy, but this is a red flag right? Especially the cheating comment. My wife and I want to be in the same room, having this first experience be TOGETHER. Separate room play just seems like something that would occur wayyyy down the road when that trust has been built and we’ve met someone a couple of times.

Am I over thinking this? Were not interested in being someone’s last resort to save their relationship.