What’s something you’ve gained from the lifestyle you didn’t predict before getting in?
For me, as a female, it’s female friends I can finally relate to. Probably not surprising, but growing up I was the chick who related better to guys than girls. Then girls didn’t like me because they felt threatened. No, as a grown ass adult, I cringe sitting around with the women at work complaining about how they hate fucking their husbands and just don’t want to be touched.
But I’ve found my people in the lifestyle. They may not be close “drink wine together every Thursday” kind of friends, but they get me and I feel like I can be me without judgment… finally.
How about you??
I think seeing and embracing the fact that other people are attracted to us has made us more attracted to each other.
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My wife sat and listened to the same thing. Laughed to herself