We’ve seen a great couple 3 times now and all 3 times, the spouse had problems maintaining his erection. We’ve been very understanding and last night my husband decided not to have sex with his wife so there wouldn’t be an unequal play dynamic. Prior to play; as we knew there were prior issues we spoke to it. Blue pills, cock ring and even no condom use ( we’ve both aren’t active with other couples and had sti panels) were discussed. He said; I’m good and decided to use a cock ring. Well; it didn’t work. Now- we have always had group texts ; there was no rules or discussion on communication ; but we are thinking maybe I should reach out to his wife and see what options ideas we can bring up as we do like them. We dislike idea of going out of group chat but feel it may save further embarrassment awkwardness