Diving Into My First Real Bi Male Experience

I had this posted in /bisexual originally but as a couple in the lifestyle, I thought there would be a lot of value here for bi couples just starting to explore or are curious.

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Just getting back from a weekend trip to our friends house and have to write about a great experience I had.

To preface, my wife and I have been in the lifestyle for about 6 years, both in our early 30's (31 / 32). Our friends are also in the lifestyle and we are pretty close. It wouldn't be hard to imagine the four of us entering a polly relationship if we lived closer but the reality of hopping on a plane wouldn't make it possible. Needless to say, we have a very close relationship.

While leading up to this trip, John and I began talking about fantasies of exploring with other men. It was something that was nerve wracking, intimidating and very scary. Only recently did I begin to share these thoughts with my wife and now openly talking about it with another guy was heart pounding but soothing at the same time. What prompted these conversations was 2 brief encounters during our previous hangouts. The first time, John asked if we could, "touch dicks" and I said yes. Our wives were both there and watch as we touch each other cocks for the first time. Just playful fun stroking each other while our wives sucked us. The second time, I asked if I could put it in my mouth, he said yes and that was the first time I had a cock in my mouth. He blew me too, I blew him and the four of us continued to play. Those encounters left us curious for more.

During our visit to their house, it was suggested both our wives visit with one of their friends to have a mid-day threesome, hot! John and I agreed to their suggestion and they went off leaving us two alone. We both knew what was on each others mind. He suggested a scenario with a little hesitation and nervousness, he wanted to shower, and after we could watch porn and jerk off next to each other to which I promptly agreed. I heard the shower turn on and had a thought of my own. I was so nervous, my heart was beating so fast as I stood outside his room with my hands on my mouth, standing and thinking, building up the courage. I took a deep breath through my nose, walked into the bathroom and asked, "can I blow you in the shower?". He laughed and said yes. I was hard as a rock. I walked in and we started washing each other. This was intimate. I touched a cock before, I had his dick in my mouth during a foursome before, but never had an intimate moment with another guy. To be honest, it wasn't even something I was looking for but threw caution to the wind and said fuck it, let's see what happens. We washed each others bodies, we rubbed our cocks together and I worked my way down to my knees and took his cock in my mouth. It felt really good. He was getting harder in my mouth while the hot shower ran down us. Eventually we switch and gave me the hottest blowjob. After a few minutes, we reengaged his plan, stepped out of the shower, put on porn and laid in his bed.

Watching porn and touching ourselves didn't last long, we both wanted to be in each others mouth again. We took turns blowing and stroking each other cocks and ended up in 69. I was on top stroking John with one hand while sliding my mouth up and down his hard cock. I could feel John mouth slide off my cock, down my ball and around my ass. Before I knew it his tongue was deep in my ass while his hands were stroking me. With our wives gone, we just went wild and uninhibited. I ended up on my back, John between my legs with his finger deep in my ass, mouth on my balls stroking my cock until I exploded. Holy. Shit. After a few minutes he was on his back and my finger was in his ass and my mouth was wrapped around his cock. He grabbed his dick and started stroking himself while I reached up and put my hand around his neck. I called him a dirty boy and squeezed harder. I talked dirty to him until he was ready to cum for me. Right before he came, I put my hand on his mouth as he screamed and blew his load all over. The intensity was like being high. I saw his cum all over him and gave a quick lick off his stomach. The euphoria lasted for hours. We shared an incredibly intense sexual experience with each other. Two men, exploring like kids. We never kissed and we never fucked each other in the ass, but I can tell you I thought about both after. He enjoyed me taking control and talking dirty to him. The next day, rolls switched. I ended up handcuffed, bound, and we explored even further. This time, with our wives fucking each other in the room. I'll save that for another day.

The experience was strong and intense. MM play wasn't something on my radar in the past. Being in the lifestyle has opened up my eyes to a world of pleasure and possibilities and I am so grateful to have a wife and friends in my life that are open and supportive to growth and exploration. The experiences I had this weekend were hot and forever memorable. What is becoming clear to me is that I'm not attracted to men. I don't have a desire to date or be romantic with another man. My fantasies are sexual in nature and part of a fetish. I'm learning more but I think I would be "heteroflexible" as opposed to "bisexual"? Either way, a whole new world of pleasure is at my doorstep.

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