A couple of weeks ago my husband and I visited a (originally gay) bathhouse on their special (heterosexual) couples day. It was a great experience and a good place to dip our toes into the LS "water". The heat of a sauna, steam room and the multiple hot tubs turns the sensuality & sexiness up to 11 if you ask me. It's such a fun place to play or watch others play.

We had a great time and met some great people. Very diverse crowd regarding age and body type. It was absolutely refreshing to see a couple in their 70's enjoying themselves in one hot tub and people in their 20's socializing in the next. From bulky to dad bod and from Thicc to petite, there was someone for everyone. We even saw a woman with a walker and no fucks left to give. Loved it all!

Now, I'm attracted to tall men. Especially tall men with some muscle definition, broad shoulders, narrow hips and large hands. My husband is 6"3, athletic with a fast metabolism and his hand are broad and strong. He really makes me tick.

Unfortunately, I hadn't seen anybody with that specific body type (besides the - rather young- guy behind the bar) that afternoon. So I thought...

We were about to leave and I was taking a shower while my husband went to the restroom. Finishing up, I saw a tall man walking down the hall towards the communal shower room. Finally! I got excited and as he came nearer admired his broad shoulders and lean build. The place was quite dark and the room large, so when he was finally close enough for me to see beyond his outline I realized I was looking at my husband...

That made us laugh so hard when I told him. But more importantly, it made me realize that it's pretty special and very humbling that - even after 24 years of sharing our lives- I'd still choose him every day of the week and twice on Sunday.