After careful consideration pertaining to te LS, and the mass load of flaky people involved. I 38m, have decided that I only gave one course of action I see viable. If my wife wants to go to an event or party, I will go. However, I will let her mingle while I glare at everyone else and retain my reputation as the a-hole I am always labeled as, even though I'm not. I'm flipping that switch back on to go back to how I used to live, which is as follows. "Fuck 'em, fuck 'em all." I'm done with the head games, the fake we're interested-not Iinterested-interested drama bs, and fake people. For the real swingers out there, have a blast! For the flakes, rot in hell and have a slow burning death. .