My wife and I have had a couple of excellent experiences with friends that just kinda happened. We already had great communication and it made them good experiences, but we are looking to expand our horizons and my wife is concerned that potential partners aren’t going to have that existing communication and won’t be “skilled” enough to make it enjoyable.
I feel like there’s an obvious answer here in the community that I’m missing. Help?
It's a challenge to know ahead of time. Best advice is to communicate likes and dislikes for sure. But just because a conversation goes well ahead of time doesn't mean the sex will be good. We've had experiences where the wife communicated well and the husband almost didn't communicate at all, and the wife said guys love her and get hooked. Turns out the wife was terrible in bed (tried 2x to verify) and the husband wasn't great but wasn't terrible. Honestly it's like roulette. But at the end of the night, you win no matter what as you get your spouse back, and that sex is always the best (at least for us)!
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