I've been attending a swinger club in my area a few times now. The experience is so hit or miss. I have made great connections outside of the club, but in the club, it's a shot in the dark. This past weekend really frustrated me because three couples who I had extensive communication with were attending. My lesson learned this time is probably never do meet and greets there because i really wasn't really able to talk with them. Maybe that's how it is for couples and women too, but my observations lead me to believe that having a woman as your significant other all of sudden becomes a game changer. Are there other men who have way better experiences more frequently? What are your clubs like with single men? I would love to hear from anyone on their thoughts.