(M) We are in a similar situation in that my wife has a quickly decline in desire to sleep with other men (trust me weve been on reddit long enough shes been offered just about every kind of man you could think of). We started with full swaps and have had just short of a dozen experiences with a handful of couples in about 4 years of truly active lifestyle. We just had our first ffm this past weekend.

While we always hunted unicorns as well as couples, we will most likely be switching over ot just unicorn hunting. We've had a hard time a) weeding through single males b) finding four way attraction c) that couple not being overly male driven. I do the most the leg work when it comes to finding partners and the effort just seems better spent solely on unicorns.

I've had some luck playing without her with single females. However I personally want to share the lifestyle with my wife and solo play just doesn't do that for me. The most promising connections and closest interactions of finding a unicorn have have been in person interactions.