It started off when we had vanilla friends over for dinner, and we impromptu went in the jacuzzi but they didn’t bring bathing suits because we didn’t know we would end up going in.. but instead of asking us for spares they just said we could go in naked if that’s chill with us?? and we were like do they know we are swingers? Of course we were ok with it! So we all went in nude and had a great time laughing it up talking about our boobs in front of our husbands fast forward we checked the time and they realized they needed to get going to get there kids from there babysitter. And that’s how that night ended we chatted wondering what that was about but figured there just friendly and comfortable.. then me and the other wife were at lunch and she was showing me pictures of a craft she was working on and while she was swiping threw her photos a picture of her husband’s penis came up and instead of turning her phone away she turned it towards me and said so what do you think? While giggling. I responded, that’s hot he has an amazing penis! Then the server walked by and she quickly put her phone down and the subject was changed to us ordering…. what’s going on!? Are we slowly getting to the conversation where I tell her we are swingers and find out they might be too? Should I bring it up or let it come up naturally?