Okay, a quick scenario I'm sure you've all run into -

You chat with a couple, there's a bit of back and forth with what everyone is into, it sounds like it's worth meeting up. You mutually agree on a time and location a day or so before, then the day of - crickets. You're going out anyway - so you decide to grab dinner/drinks at the spot anyway in case they show up - but they don't. No explanation, no messages, the usual.

It's a scenario we've all had in the lifestyle multiple times. We're with our #1, so whatever - we still have a nice date night. Naturally, we feel a bit of frustration that people are so cavalier, but whatever - it's the lifestyle, so we move on.

My question is - do you message to ask what happened, do you wait and see if they ever message, or do you just ignore them entirely and move on?