I (wife) am very outgoing and uninhibited in my natural-alcohol free state, so I tend to be the one that reaches out to other couples to chat, or walk up to the and start talking in a club. Here’s my question: if I’m the one that starts making the move from talking to fucking, is that a turn off for the other wife? It seems most men are down with the woman making the move, but I don’t know how the other women feel about it? Can it come across as threatening?

Also, I’ve never made the first move before, because I’ve been married for the last 20 years, so what’s your best line? I’m in this because we’re DTF, and I know you fine swingers of REDDIT can help me become a closer.