Hi all,

Many in the Lifestyle are open about it, while many are not. For those of us who are not, the levels of openness and integration into our vanilla lives can vary significantly, with some folks even living a true double life that is secret from literally everyone but their significant other and play partners.

The question I have is, what do people do about ensuring for and controlling barriers between lives, as it relates to the technology and information space? Some stream of consciousness examples of what's ping-ponging around my head:

My phone is the epicenter, and because privacy is basically as real as dragons are, all my apps can "see" all my other apps and web history. Google can see all. Location history tracking. Facebook uses data from everywhere, from everything it owns, so even if you don't have a Facebook on your phone, any use of Whatsapp or Instagram is mined for Facebook's use and they magically suggest friends you might know (even though we may already know them but in the biblical sense). My Google Play store history (Feeld in, Feeld out, Feeld in, Feeld out).

Does anyone have anything (other than drugs) that can help me?