So I would like to ask those of you who, preferably even before becoming swingers themselves, work of worked in bars or hotels a question: You do realize what is going on if swingers are meeting there, right?

So here is the reason I ask: We had a quite busy weekend. Friday we had a date and saturday we went to a party. On our date we went to a really nice bar we have never been to before (other couple suggested it). It had two floors and many tables that were not close to each other and somewhat hidden from each other, so perfect for a swinger date.

To make things short, the date went well and they told us they are gonna take us back to their hotel. Great, let's get the check. When we got the check, the waitress said: "Have a nice evening" and the guy from the other couple responded: "Well, we will see." Her answer to that was very funny and quite obvious, she said: "Ohh, I am sure you will!" with this big smile and then winked at us. So yeah, she knew exactly what was going on I believe. Anyways the next day at the swinger party I told this story to some friends and they said that this bar is actually quite well known for swinger dates and she absolutely knew.

Just so I said it: I have zero problems with that, however it made me wonder how many other waitresses/waiters and receptionists know exactly what is going on. I mean, it isn't exactly hard to figure out, right? If four people go up and two people come back a couple of hours later with a big smile and ruffled hair, it ain't exactly rocket science, haha.