1. English is not my first language so there must be limits in comminication. —> but no one goes to club to debate about graduate school level of lecture or political issue.

2. I have not been accustomed to party culture or being with strange men. Though secular, i am from religious country with adulterg law. I myself am almost atheist but i must confess such rigid atmosphere affected my attitude.

— Online including reddit and club website a lot of people talk about nasty plan with me, praising how good my pics are.

But everytime i visited club, i feel i am a ghost. Feels all try to avoid me. Do i look unattractive? I am not beauty queen but not that bad i think.

Play there? Visited club many times, and success only when i bravely talk to some guys.

I may look too cold or uninterested. Maybe look too nervous. I really want to start at least conversation with others.

What will be a good way to break ice? Is “good weather” in pnw (very old way)? Is giving hello to female members better idea?