Hi gang, my wife and I are looking for some fun in the LS but we are having trouble finding the right spot to find another couple to play with. I'm (43m) am kinda new to the LS, but my wife (39f) isn't. She's been with another couple as a unicorn, and has told me me all about her adventures. I'm am super curious to try something new. Our sex life is what can I say... kinda boring same Ole same Ole. And I want to spice things up. But here in eastern iowa it's hard to find any one. We've tried the reddit thing and every msg we have got and sent photos to have not responded back. We are on SLS but only on the free version, and we are also on the swingers group website but again all those are a paid service. And we can't afford to pay for those right now.

My question is, where do you all go to find another couple. I've thought about asking our close friends but, I feel like that's not really an option my BF wife doesn't seem to like me too much.

Where should we go to find the right attractive couple? Having some trouble in my research here.