Wife (26) and I (30) are really excited about the prospects of swinging but we're trying to be slow and careful about it. considering we come from a rather conservative society, it's not an option to jump right into it. Sites like Feeld aren't quite populated and there are no swinger clubs.

She has a hotwife fetish and I like it when she's appreciated for the goddess she is. So to start things off and to get both of us warmed up, we are exploring the idea of visiting a club dressed nice and hot, and let her dance with a stranger. Nothing too intimate to begin with - maybe a bit of feeling up, some grinding, a lot of flirting - while i watch from a distance. She is pretty hot and finding someone shouldn't be a problem.

We have a few ground rules - like no real names, no kissing, no overly alpha male toxic men etc. Is there anything else we need to keep in mind? What do you guys think about this? What would be a possible next step?