Just curious as to how common it is, call it a shower thought i just had lol. When I first learned about swinging it was years ago at a friend's house. We were watching bobs burgers and at an old folks community it was a community of swingers, and they would quite literally trade partners and go have fun separately from their significant other.
So i just am wondering now, how many of you actually "trade" partners and play in separate rooms or locations? And do we actually know how common that truly is?
It took time for us to get there. All of our solo plays are with people that we have became friends with and hangout with a few times a month (outside of play settings).
My husband and I play separately on a regular basis, more him than me. We only play separately with couples or singles that we have both been with while playing together. I guess itâs our kind of vetting process. Our work schedules made it hard for us to find time together to play with others so we decided solo play would be okay also.
Yes. My husband is more social than I am so he loves getting out and about. I on the other hand am a person than doesnât like to socialize a lot. Solo play helped us find a balance that works for us.
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My husband and I had a serious sit down about it, but talking about it with the other couples was more casual. We asked them if they would be interested in solo play, and discussed what situations are acceptable. We never push toward a âyesâ reply. If they want to then thatâs fine, and if they donât then thatâs fine also.