You get 1 “Hi there”.

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Is there anything more aggravating than people whose chat game consists of “hey”, or “Hi there”?

We will respond in kind. But if your follow up is something like, “how’s it going?”

That’s it. We’re out.

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ResearchSwinger

There’s a formula for this that works most of the time with the majority of couples/singles we’ve messaged.

Pleasant greeting
Something in the profile that caught your eye. (Bonus if you can point to something non-physical that makes you genuinely believe you might have some common interests). Add a tasteful compliment if you like.
A polite request to reciprocate by looking at your profile.
An invitation to further conversation if there is mutual interest.

If this all sounds like way too much work, no problem. YOU DO YOU! You just won’t be doing us 😉

PS: professional salespeople will recognize the formula above as a tried and true method for imitating new conversations with strangers.

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ResearchSwinger

And that’s just fine. I’m sure there are a ton of folks out there that dig this method. Do your thing out there.

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