My girlfriend and i love the scene, it brings fresh air into our relationship, we have new vibes and it’s s pretty awesome in general. Our communication is great (as it was before entering the LS). She has specific needs, fantasies and kinks though. Kinks that i can’t and won’t give her because they aren’t my thing and it doesn’t fit in our relationship. I sincerely want them for her, i know it would make her happy and i’m sure it would give our relationship even better vibes… but i just can’t. I don’t know why, i saw her fuck other dudes and i don’t mind at all, it gets me horny so I’m sure that’s not the problem. I think i’m selfish and that makes me sad but i can’t stand the thought of her playing by herself without me. What are your experiences/thoughts about this?
We have opened our relationship up due to work trips taking me away from him for 2-3-4 weeks at a time. We love playing together but decided that if we found someone while apart we would hopefully be able to have some fun, then all have fun together.
It has worked well to meet a lot of people who seem to appreciate the desire to have fun for fun sake.
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