We're just getting back into looking on sites this year and I have to shout...

WHEN DID PEOPLE STOP USING THE MAIL FUNCTION?

Find a couple we are interested in, give a hello mail and open our pictures. In our mail I ask them if they are interested let us know.

They like several of the pictures, open their private pictures, and but never say Hi, yes, no, lets meet, or anything. This is a 2 way thing people I'm not our tour guide.

Ghosting is fine, it happens, but you open your private face photos, like several of our pictures, but don't RESPOND?! Why? I don't think its ghosting, we're not shooting outside of our league, but when did the early 2000's TOO many emails without meeting become NO emails?

Its not zoomers here either, we're talking 40 to 55 mostly (everyone says they are 40ish but as I'm not blind, no, but thats been a true thing in swinging forever and ranted on many times).

There is no excuse for gen Xers here.

Rant over.