Hey there, and thanks for taking the time to read this. I look forward to reading some of the responses.

So basically I'm meeting with a couple at a hotel room. This will be the first time that I am being invited in for a pre arranged date with a couple. I have played with couples at the club but that is very much just being picked up by a female joining the couple, finishing and then moving on. Not much connection just great sex, and most of the time he wants to watch kind of thing.

This will be different, this will be MFM all the way. Lots of play, lots of foreplay, giving her as much attention as we can. We've met once for a quick coffee, we have discussed likes and dislikes, limits ect. So I'm not asking for individualized advice.

But for the couple's out there, is there anything you would want from a new partner?

Single men, what are some things that you wish you knew before joining an existing dynamic?

Any general words of wisdom for me?

Cheers,