I [22m] have always wanted a 3sum. What guy doesn’t right? I’ve had a couple experiences well before getting involved with my now wife [21f]. I really enjoyed the experiences with mostly random women but now I almost crave it with my wife. I’ve brought up the idea of a 3sum a few times kinda joking and nothing come of it. She has never had any experience like that before. But I want to genuinely bring it up and actually ask if we can invite more people into our bed. I am also closeted bi curious. She did tell me not too long ago that she wants to have sex with other people in the room but not interact with them. I do too but I want a little more action than that. I just don’t know how to bring up the idea and not sound like a douche. Should we try her idea and start with having sex in the same room as another couple and just take baby steps into something else? If so, how do we go about that? Any advise? TIA