For all of the 13 years Ive been with my wife she was always interested in women. She even had a few GFs before we got together. As of the last year we brings up the idea of swapping and threesomes. We’re all for it, but heres were it gets complicated for me. She doesn’t really want to have Initial conversations with people. She would prefer me do all the talking/chatting online.
Ive been chatting with people for a few weeks now, the conversations are great but shes not included outside of me reading the convo later on. She wants to click with another women so bad and I feel she needs to get into these conversations with us.
Specifically I have been talking to one girl lets call her Cait. Cait seems interested in me and has made comments/compliments about my wife on multiple occasions hinting shes also interested in her. When my wife hears this she gets excited and happy. So I said to my wife “Hey you should message Cait and introduce yourself and talk to her a bit Ive been talking to her for like a week now” and she replied “I have nothing to say or else I would have messaged her already”
I dont know what to do with that information. I told her we should both be involved in this process especially if she wants us to match with Bisexual women. I know she REALLY like when girls come to her but that cant ALWAYS be the case. It sometimes makes me feel weird to me to converse with the Women with intention of hook ups with the both of us and shes not in the mix. I have full confidence speaking but for me its like somethings missing because shes not involved.
What do?
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