It seems like it’s just a never ending recurring theme on here. Some couple hooks up with their vanilla friends and the whole relationship dynamic just completely implodes. Jealousy, drama, confusion, fuzzy boundaries, etc. It almost never works. Are there exceptions? Of course. But it’s just generally a terrible idea. So for all of you newbies, let us save you some trouble. Make swingers your friends if you’d like to, but don’t make your friends into swingers. Find a sex club, join a swinger website, hit up Reddit for other likeminded individuals. But leave the neighbors, your ex, his ex, and your high school bestie alone.
A while back one of our friends/coworkers started coming on to one of us, and then said she'd be down for both of us. We stupidly agreed because sex lol. It was a mistake. Nothing bad ever happened, but the dynamic definitely changed.
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