My fiance and I are experienced swingers and we finally booked a trip to Desire RM for 3 nights followed by a night at Temptation. A bit of a mix.

I've read good reviews of the Boobs Cruise - and we will be at RM Friday day/night. Would you rather spend the day at RM itself (that would be our third/last day there) - or head out on the Boobs Cruise?

We tend to do better with engaging more with people prior to swapping - but I'm unsure of the whole vibe. Are we giving up valuable engagement time with others? I imagine we will also be fine drinking and with some guided peer pressure on the cruise and some play there - but ultimately would prefer the option of full swap.

Would you stay or go? Ultimately trying to figure out the daytime vibe at DRM and the engagement in the day with others vs engagement with those same people later.