It seems like every profile we read on C4P and on our Facebook groups Read something like
She's bi / he's straight
How is it that every girl is bi and every guy is straight
We're both straight but consider ourselves heteroflexible and like to have some fun experimenting withthat but it seems like it'd be next impossible to find lol
And sense The wife isn't "bi" it makes it really hard to find couples since the other girls all want to play with her more than she's comfortable..
Thoughts?
Edit: edit comment about waste preference
Its a good point. Sometimes I'm more bi than others. I guess that makes me a pillow princess.
Our experience in this lifestyle was dead ended if I didn't want it. If he didn't want it, I'd still be here, he wouldn't.
Again, I'm sorry for your experience. I've found it to be very satisfying and empowering personally.
I'm sorry that you've had this experience. It is not consistent with mine.
I'd never presume to judge things you find sexy.
Sounds like you have a problem with a woman wielding power. It's up to the man to participate with me. It's not up to the man whether or not I participate. If relationships are about openness and communication then I can't see a path to being with a man who doesn't understand this aspect of me so I won't be with that type of man. I guess disqualifying themselves puts them in power over something?
Agree with you - it's not a requirement but I do find women attractive and I enjoy sex with them. I know I'm not fully bi because I like having a man there to enjoy the show.
Given that we women hold all the keys in this game, I wonder if men aren't as "bi" as we are because women don't think it's attractive to watch their man with another man. I certainly wouldn't.
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Gotta ask... if it's all so negative why are you here? I totally agree with you about card collectors. Solve for it by only sharing a few pics of yourself and limit your exposure. Take control by not letting men make decisions for you. If you're not happy playing the game, change the rules. If you can't, why not stop? You seem very determined to make me miserable like you and I don't really understand it.