So the wife and I have been dabbling in the lifestyle for a brief period. She has expressed interest in BBC potentially in the future and I want both of us to be getting what we want out of the LS experience

My concern here is everything I see when it comes to “bulls” or “hot wife’s” seems like the male partner is being disrespected or put down by either the wife or the “bull”.

She isn’t looking for that, more has just been curious because never been with someone that large either of any race, as I am pretty average

So what’s the best way to let that exploration happen without crossing those disrespect lines as that would take something that I am excited about for her into a negative place

As a note, we aren’t looking for MFM or for solo play for her but as same room full/soft swap, she’s old fashioned that way lol