Ok so we have played 3 separate times on three separate vacations. Mostly soft swap with some group play. Last time she went down on one of the guys while I fucked his partner for a couple minutes before going back to soft swap stuff.

My wife is very Bi and gets very into it when we play. Not only do we both enjoy playing but our personal alone sex is always so much more intense afterwards.

We have both talked about making it more regular and adding it to our non-vacation lives but she is hesitant to join online communities and post things because of her job.

I’d like to find a group of like minded friends, that isn’t built around the premise of us for sure playing because I don’t want to put that pressure on my wife. But just to learn more about the lifestyle and build her comfort with us being “out” as LS enthusiasts.

The issue I run into is that other couples think I’m somehow trying to set them up or that I’m trying to use them to talk my wife into playing. While I see their worry, I truly just want to make friends and learn, but because of the nature of this community that’s not very easily done.

Any advice, tips, or help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance and I look forward to hearing for you guys