Hello. We are new and are looking for some advice. I'm 25 and she's 23. We're starting off slow with just one other person to see how it goes. I don't know if it counts or not since we're not swapping or anything like that. We're just looking for someone to share the wife with. Nothing submissive about it and I'm going to be actively involved in the deed. My main question is how did you guys start out. Did you start out with a other couple or one other person? Where at? Did you have dinner and drinks first or just straight to it? We're going at her pace but I'm just trying to make it as comfortable and calm for her as possible so she can enjoy it to the max. And for the men, what was going through your head when you saw another man with your wife? It was originally my idea so I am okay with it. But there's always a man's pride that he has to get over. And I know I'm doing this for her because I want her to feel amazing. Is there anything to help with the butterflies you get? If you need anymore info feel free to pm me.