So when I started I was about 19-20 yo.. I was single and went to my first "party" I met a couple I guess both were in there 30s and it turned out that it was a hwcouple.. It started weird because the husband told me how good she sucks and insisted on letting her suck me

She was freaking bad…(in my opinion at first..) but I found out after talking to the husband afterwards that he hates it when she plays with his foreskin. I love it. He loves hard and fast strokes. I prefer gentle

In the end we talked about it and she gave me an amazing bj.

So talking is the key, everyone is different and likes different things and asking someone how he/she/they like it never was a shame:)