Going to our first ever lifestyle event tomorrow at a club. I'm excited and nervous all at the same time because I have limited to no idea what to expect tomorrow. I may be overthinking things, but I'm more worried I may be overlooking some important things. Here's a rundown.

4pm: drop off the kiddo at childcare for the night 5pm-7:30pm: nap 8pm-9:30pm: get ready and have a small bite to eat 9:30pm: leave for event (30min away, doors are at 9pm) 10pm-10:15pm: get checked in, changed out of outside clothes (I'll prolly wear a hoody and a coat over my sexy clothes), and set up our locker 10:30-10:45pm: tour the facility and see what's where 10:45-11pm: chat with hubby about the game plan, maybe something along the lines of: 11-11:30pm: get drinks and mingle 11:30pm-12am: dance and mingle 12am-?: find any potential guests and a place to play ?-3am: unwind and dance some more 3am: head home

Notes: We have no expectations to find any play partners tomorrow. We're open to them, but don't expect to find a match our first time. Worst case scenario: we don't like the vibe at all and leave after touring the place. Best case scenario: we meet, mutually vibe and click with, play with a unicorn or couple of our liking, and establish a future play relationship with them. Worst case ain't too bad. Best case seems pretty awesome. We have discussed rules and boundaries amongst ourselves and plan to be open about such rules and boundaries with any potential play partners. I have a bag of supplies: lube, clit gel, latex-free condoms, flushable wipes, mouthwash, breath mints, viagra, hair ties, bandaids, and nail clippers. We don't plan on drinking any alcohol. We're not big drinkers anyway, so it won't be a noticed absence. The theme of the night is Unicorns and Bi-Girls. Here are my considerations of what that (likely) means. Please advise if I'm either incorrect or missing anything here. 1. There will be a lot of couples present in the same race as us: the race to find a unicorn. 2. There might be a higher chance of actually finding a unicorn to play with. 3. Competition for that Unicorn's attention will be HIGH. 4. We might find an arrangement with another couple to do parallel play where the girls play with each other but stick to their own men... I'm not sure if this one or finding a unicorn is more likely. 5. Rejection might be more easily handled by other couples that arent right for us since we're all there for the same reason, seemingly by the theme.

If you've gotten this far, I greatly appreciate you. If you give me solid advice or tid-bits of what to expect or things ive overlooked, thank you times a gazillion and I grant you a virtual brownie of gratitude.

Xoxo