Hi everyone! My partner and i have been speaking about the swinging lifestyle for many many years now and we have finally had the chance to start exploring. We have had lots of chats and messages and are having our second meet with a couple on Saturday. They have had a bad experience in the past before meeting us were things went full on the to quick and are scared of making the same mistakes. We have a bar in our garden and they are coming for drinks and then maybe we are all going out for some outdoor fun! Trying to find things to break the ice for us all back at the bar so we can all feel a bit more flirty and relaxed instead of nerves 😂. Any tips would be greatly appreciated as its starting to get cold in the uk at night now and would be great to be able to stay in the warm pub if things went well lol. Thanks everyone