51M/49F from OKC. Married for 20 years. Both are swinger virgins, but the kids are grown and were ready for some kinky adventures. We have had many discussion about what we want and what’s on our bucket list to be checked off. What we don’t know is how to ease into the lifestyle. Is it best to start by going to clubs, signing up on a site like SDC, making a post here or taking a Bliss cruise? There seems like a lot of options and we have read tons of stuff online. It seems like all of the things mention will get you there, but what’s the best way when you want to slowly get broken in especially with folks more experienced or advanced? We would love to hear how others got started and if they would have done anything different as they first entered the lifestyle. We would really like to hear from anyone closer to our age that entered recently.