Husband (45M) and I(45F) have been feeling out the lifestyle for about 9 months now. We have visited a few different clubs, and it’s really been sexy time for us. We hadn’t been ready to play with other couples, but did a lot of fantasizing and discussed “what if” scenarios.

Last night the “what ifs” really happened. While at a club that’s close to us, we were making out in the main play room. The room only has 2 beds, which were both occupied. My husband and I were admiring both of the couples, when the wife of one walked over and mentioned they had extra space on their bed if we were interested.

It ended with lots of touching of the other wife and myself, but we stayed with our own partners.

Great communication between all of us with regard to boundaries.

While my husband and I were still having sex, the couple finished up and started getting dressed. We exchanged names and thanked them for the invite. We didn’t see them at the club the rest of the night.

So, is that it? I’d love to connect and thank them. Or is it just one and done and that’s it?

I checked our club’s private Facebook group, and found the wife’s account. It looks to not allow friend requests, but messaging is still open. Is it out of line for me to message her? Or should I just let it be?