My partner and I are in our mid 30s, are properly skeeved out by half the people we try to flirt with and genuinely just want to play with our friends. We know that’s a terrible idea, but… is it???

Hear me out, we’re each friends with a few of our exes and our most successful playmates are old flings from before we started dating. Hell, a few friends even broke the age old rule of not hooking up with exes. And you know what, now that’s we’re in our 30s we’re all friends again. I don’t think any of us have the energy to care about the same bullshit we did in our 20s haha

We would never want to risk life long best friendship, but opening your relationship and yourself up to friends you’ve known for a few years and like is a hell of a lot more appealing than strangers at this point.

In spite of all that… is still the dumbest idea in the world?