Hey, my GF and I (33f / 34m) finally made the move and started swinging.

We went to a paid site to meet up with people, because best case scenario for us would be to find a bi-couple to build a kinda friends with benefits scenario.

We do feel it's rather hard. First of, it's REALLY hard to find couples where both partners are Bi. However we met two couples.

The first one the woman just didn't click with us.

However the second couple we met was super hot and we were all into each other. Met first time just as a check up and the second time we started playing a sexy board game called swinger 2000 It was a pretty hot experience, however we never finished because the other male didn't want to continue into the last level. This was totally cool with us. My GF and I then just had amazing sex in front of them, and later helped his girlfriend pleasuring him orally.

The evening got pretty late, so we stayed the night. Had a good chat the morning after and left.

My God were my GF and I turned on from the experience. It definitely enhanced our sex life a lot!

However, the other couple has been rather distant after that, we did write a little bit here and there and offered a new appointment, however they seem rather reluctant. And it's honestly really annoying, we made clear that if there are any problems we are absolutely up to talk. It just feels like we are getting ghosted which feels pretty frustrating and I'm really not sure if we want to continue playing after that behavior. Open communications and consens is sexy.....the opposite rather not.

So yeah, that's pretty much our story right now. We are still looking for new couples, and looking into visiting a club, however we feel kinda let down.

It's much rather a small rant than anything else. Just needed to get this of our chests 😅