My hubby and I have been off and on swingers for 20 years. Two years ago we met this amazing couple. We have so much in common it’s like we are all twins. We have an amazing friendship and have amazing sex. I wish he could get harder than he does because hubby has the hardest cock I’ve e ever had. Anyway, we only have sex with them no other couples but they are nudists so they are around many other couples. We aren’t even looking and it could be more of a relationship with them. We went to Nashville last month and we both walked around the bars and held hands the entire time walking around with the other spouse. Well they travel a lot and are out west and they said they were going to dinner with friends. Then the texts stopped. We are not exclusive but we feel like they should be more open if they are fucking other couples. We have never had a couple we dated, fucked, had sex with, anything you want to add, it’s never been this long.

Couple questions! 1. As swingers do we have the right to know if they are having sex with other couples?

1. Is it ok to ask them?

2. Should we just consider it sec and if they are just let it go?

Not sure how to move forward. Thanks. Any constructive answers will help.