I am F(33) and I have never done anything like this. I did see the helpful website for learning about the community and plan to read a lot. My main concern is I was raised catholic and taught you have 1 partner and that is who you are with. My boyfriend has previously been in this lifestyle and it is something I would like to try. I'm worried I'll be over jealous with another woman pleasuring him or vice versa. I'm also worried I'll feel like a cheater or worse. He and I have talked and I told him I was joining groups to learn more. He has never once pressured me into anything. He has been very good about explaining things to me...grant it I dont understand a lot of it.
I did read this was for people in Georgia and we are in Nebraska. I am hoping people in this group would be willing to help me learn about the community and maybe in ways I can better understand.
Thank you
Best advice is to take it slow. Keep reading and find the right people to chat with. If you’re into fantasizing in the bedroom, use toys to help get comfortable with the idea. Make sure you’re coming at this for you as well as your partner. If you can’t agree no one plays. Have an aftercare plan or a way to reconnect. The biggest thing is be prepared for the frustration that comes with the location. It’s limited if you’re not around the bigger cities in the eastern part of the state. There are a lot of flakes as well. Good luck to you both.
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