We are in our early 70s but look at least ten years younger. We went to Desire Pearl twice and had our first experiences. We did a lot of touching, feeling and I had oral done on me when we were with two couples. My wife was kissed and kissed back, and her tits and pussy felt. We had fun. The second time was with just another guy. He and I sucked my wife’s nipples and fingered her and she had multiple orgasms. I also did oral but he didn’t.

Two issues came up and they’re both on me:

When we had the threesome, afterward in the jacuzzi, my wife kissed him while holding his cock. I didn’t care about what she did, but I felt left out because she didn’t touch me too. Not a big deal but a twinge of jealousy? I guess on my part. I got over it. The other issue is that for 70, my wife has the body of a 30 or 40 year old. Most other women anywhere near our age group aren’t as attractive. So, and I know this is bad to say and maybe sexist, but I feel like I’m trading down if we full swap. How do I overcome this? What do you do when your partner is more attractive than your swap partner? How do you deal with that? Right now we’re just going to do play and some soft swap. I’d appreciate some guidance. Thanks