My husband and I are playing around with the idea to exploring new adventures together.

He is 42, I'm 42 - hedro monogamous for 20 years.

In my younger years, I was very open and sexually active. Especially when emotional connection was not involved Over the years my husband i never really discussed our preferences before we got married. .

For the last 14 years, i have not been comfortable with my body shape, so he didnt feel comfortable talking about what he likes.

Recently, I've lost a considerable amount of weight and finally feeling comfortable with my body. I even tryly believe im full figured sexy. This has lead to a very open and honest conversation focused on eachothers sexual desires, preferences and fantasies. I have always been Bi-curious but struggled morally due to a deeply religious up bringing. Last knight we were intimaate together watching adult videos. Which lead to me confessing my profound attraction to some women. We are very much attracted to the same physical type.

We want to explore multiple partners... in a safe environment. More specifically another married couple. I feel like its less risky for something to sideways.

Of course we are placing rules and boundaries before we actually have our first encounter. Right now it's just exploratory.

With that in mind, i decided to start a kasidie profile. My husband and I got together before dating apps really took off. Needless to say, I'm at a loss of what to post.

I'm looking for advice. Please be kind.