Hi everyone!

We are considering exploring a threesome, specifically a MFM scenario, in the near future. It's important to me that she can openly express her feelings and sensations. I believe honesty is crucial in such experiences. I don't see the point in involving a third person if she feels the need to pretend that I'm better than anyone else. To me its all about her pleasure doesn't matter where it comes from.

So, my wife and I have been married for many years, and she had only been with one other person before me. Last night, I decided to ask her about her past experiences, specifically about how her previous partner was in bed. The conversation took an uncomfortable turn, and things got awkward. I pressed a bit, and she mentioned that he had a larger physical attribute (as she had shared before), but he had some issues with substance use, and their intimate moments were not frequent or particularly exciting.

When I suggested that there must have been some positive aspects too, she didn't provide any details and seemed puzzled as to why I was so curious about it. I tried to explain that it was just out of pure curiosity, but she didn't share any positive experiences.

I'm unsure about how to interpret her reaction. I was silent for a few minutes because her response caught me off guard, and I tried to change the subject to lighten the mood, but she remained serious for the rest of the evening.

What are your thoughts on this situation?

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Thanks!