My wife and I are planning our first trip to a club near us (Columbus, OH) and we are curious about how we need to dress. We assume that we wear normal/sexy “going out” outfits for arrival and early evening hanging out/etc and then a change before heading back to the play areas. Regarding the latter, we have a few specific questions. First for the ladies, assuming they change before venturing into the play areas, do they wear lingerie? Nothing? Something else? She has this great mesh/fishnet dress that is super sexy and reveals just about everything (it’s easy to take off, which is a plus). Would that be appropriate or should she consider something more like lingerie? Would it be appropriate for her to wear nothing at all? For the men, what do they change into? Just strip down to boxers/underwear? Less? More?

I also realize that some evenings have theme nights and we would vary our attire based on the theme, which would involve some online shopping as the only costumes/themed attire we have are the kids old Halloween costumes.

(Also, I realize that this question or a version of it is asked regularly but most of the comments pertain primarily to the women.)