Hi all, myself (f28) and my husband (m40) have just entered the swinger and ENM community in 2021/2022. We have a hard time finding other couples, he’s having a hard time finding someone for separate play. We have done the clubs but by god they are expensive. I understand why but on a monthly basis it gets expensive. I have seen a lot of post about house parties that swingers host. How are we finding these? We are in the Portland, OR metro area and we have A LOT of clubs. Though I never see anything about the social aspect of the house parties. Any suggestions on how to get deeper in the community? We are on feeld which is where we are struggling. Connection happens, then no one messages back.
We just got invited to our first house party yesterday. 1. We got a premium account on SLS a few months ago, someone reached out to us there to join a local Telegram group. 2. We joined the group a few weeks ago. 3. Only last night did we get the courage to DM some people from there. 4. One didn’t align with what we wanted in play partners but ended up inviting us to a small play party they are hosting in a few weeks. It happened all virtually.
Not saying that’s the common path but might be helpful to outline the length of time and turns it took to get here.
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